| Location | Dagenham Essex |
| Age | 52 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 23/10/1955 |
| Date of Death | 21/08/2008 |
| Visitors | 837 since 21/08/2008 |
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Terry Blackman
passed away on the 21st of august 2008 aged just 52
Uncle Terry was from the dagenham area in essex
Terry was married to Cathy who he spent many happy years with.
He also had 1 sister Linda and two daughters Sam and Teri.
He leaves behind also a very large extended family.
Uncle Terry was yet another victim to cancer.
My uncle Tel was just so cool. He really knew how to have a good time. He had such an amazing sesne of humour that you realy wouldn't expect from someone with such a stern face. To me he always looked like the dagenham mafia but inside he had such a soft heart.
He wasn't a member of my family whom I see very often but that didn't matter. He always treated people well and was very supportive of people. He would always ask how i'd been and how the kids were when I see him, no matter what time or distance had been between us.
He was a very outgoing person who was a little bit crazy in his younger days. And would be very good with the children i.e us growing up and inforce good discipline.
Uncle Tel was very well known in dagenham and had a wide circle of friends and these friends would stick by him untill his last days.
I am sure there is loads that I've missed out because uncle Tel was such a character. But only those closest to him can tell the best storys.
So I'll leave this page open for everyone who knew Uncle Terry to come forward and share in the memories, love and laughter that he has left in all our hearts.
Goodnight Uncle Tel I hope you sleep peacefully and keep a close eye over all you have left behind xxx
This site was created with the utmost respect for a very great kind man. With the intention of bringing all that knew him comfort and closer together at this sad time.
Goodbye uncle Tel R.I.P
gone but remembered always
FOR BEING THE GENTLE GIANT YOU REALLY WERE!!!
XXX
another christmas
hi hun it"s only me lyn (sister) just dropping in to say i love and miss you, as do we all, hope you and ricky have a great christmas up there with the rest of the family who are with you, say hallo to every one mum and dad espicaly, well all for now luv sis
1 year already
well what can i say uncle tel its been a year since you went away and i still think bout you everyday and still miss you also just wish that i could give you a cuddle like i always used to when i came to use the computer when i was in college to do my work and just hope that your with me wherever i go love you forever and always xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
To My Old Friend Tel..
Hiya Tel
I was so sad to hear that you had passed over to be with the angels..
I first ever met you and Chris at the spiritulist church from the moment I met you and Chris I knew you were such a lovely couple.. We had some laughs at church and round your house.. You and Chris always made me feel very welcome.. Every sunday night me Debbie and Diane would come round and you would go up and down in your lift in the front room lol That was a cool lift.. You use to make me cd's and I still have War Of The Worlds that you made for my Peter..
The last time I see you, You were with Chris at Asda's and she told me that you had cancer I could tell by looking at you that you wasnt a well man.. Im sorry I didnt come nd say my goodbyes to you but I didnt know when your funeral was.. But you will always have a special place in my heart xx
Please look over Cathy as I know she probably misses you loads.. You were such a lovely couple and im so sad for her..
Till we meet again Tel
Be Blessed
Sam xxxx
a place nearby
I listen to this song whenever i have lost someone dear to me its by a lady called lene marlin and is called a place neaby
I entered the room
Sat by your bed all through the night
I watched your daily fight
I hardly knew
The pain was almost more than I could bear
And still I hear
Your last words to me
[Chorus]:
Heaven is a place nearby
So I won't be so far away
And if you try and look for me
Maybe you'll find me someday
Heaven is a place nearby
So there's no need to say goodbye
I will ask you not to cry
I'll always be by your side
You just faded away
You spread your wings, you had flown
Away to something unknown
Wish I could bring you back
You're always on my mind
About to tear myself apart
You have your special place in my heart, always
[Chorus]
And even when I go to sleep
I still can hear your voice
And those words
I never will forget
[Chorus]
ALWAYS THINKING OFF YOU AND MISSING YOU DEARLY UNCLE TEL XXXXXX
May I offer my condolences to all the family. My husband also passed of this awful disease in Jan this year. It is so heartbreaking to lose a loved one of cancer, as I know only too well. God Bless you Terry. Jean x
missed forever and always
uncle terry u've always been like a dad to me and now your gone u'll always be in my heart until its my time to go its a shame my husband to be never got to meet you but i will always be thinking of you no matter what my thoughts are with everyone of me family i promise i will visit u all soon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
My Father
This gentleman has been apart of my life for 32yrs, ive never said or heard a bad word about, my father.
the sun may shine as i sit here today, but inside my heart crys. ive never felt so much pain in my whole life, god it hurts..
I cant seem to stop cryin for u my father the gentlman i love so much..
i cant seem to focus on anything except u, dad. i will never forget u, my father, the man that will always be with me ,heart body and soul.. i love you.. xxx
May the sunshine, wherever you may be.
May the wind blow softly through your hair.
May god be standin there.
May god be holdin your hand and May god be showin you the way.
May is say' I hope the better side if life, is so much better for you now'
I hope my Mother nows how better you are, I hope that you are with here with her right now.
I hope that my Mother nows, how time heals and that this horrid feelin inside will mend.
Speakin to my Mother, i feel that pain too.
I want to say so much more but i feel so numb inside i cant think straight..
I think ill leave it now and write to you again very soon,
I LOVE YOU FATHER, THE GENTLEMAN THAT WILL ALWAYS SHINE, IN MY HEART BODY & SOUL. XXXX
Im sure uncle Tel would love these words for you Aunt Cath
I just wanted you to know.
That I'll be with you wherever you go.
I've gotten my wings and learned how to fly.
And I'll dry your tears whenever you cry.
Though I've went away and it seems we're apart.
You will forever be my soul and my heart.
The love that we shared will not go astray.
For deep in my heart it will always stay.
You held me close when I was filled with pain.
And your smile gave me sunshine when my life filled with rain.
You guided me when no one else could.
You protected me when no one else would.
We've shared so much that mere words can't express how knowing you has made me feel truly blessed.
So now my Cathy, fret not for me, for now my soul is truly free.
So think of me often, as much as you can.
And I'll always be there to hold your hand.
I'll be your angel and guide you through life.
I'll give you comfort through torment and strife.
So thank you Cathy again and again, thank you always for being my wife and my friend.
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